Wednesday, December 22, 2010

寂寞

遇见一位多年没见的朋友。聊起来知道他的大女儿在澳洲工作,是一位化学工程师。二女儿在美国念微生物博士。小儿子在一个星期前到美国升学。家里现在只剩下他们两老。

他说现在网络发达,他每天都可以在网上看到他的孩子。对孩子的成就他是很欣慰的。他多次地说,人生就是这样的,孩子会读书就会离家很远。

从他的谈话中,我可以感觉到他的寂寞。

6 comments:

黛丝 said...

大哥,你不是你的朋友,你建走爬山不寂寞。
哈哈哈。。。

冬至快乐 圣诞快乐,新年快乐

lkf said...

我的孩子还小,还没离窝。我想那种寂寞是不一样的。

冬至快乐 圣诞快乐,新年快乐
顺便问一句,我们这里没有冬天,为什么我们还是庆祝冬至?

佩仪pueyyee said...

虎大哥,

我们应节
为了珍惜围坐
吃些聊些,也简单也温馨也饱暖

lkf said...

如果我们的祖先没有庆祝冬至,如果我们的记忆里没有庆祝冬至,我们就不会庆祝冬至了。
因此我们庆祝的其实是集体记忆。

Anonymous said...

Our education system especially the higher study just lack of convincing factors for those talent and brilliant students to stay back and pursue of their missions.
Many parents tight down their stomach and save enough just for their children to go abroad and study in respective profession.
Hence our talented and smart citizens were remain in oversea to perform services for foreign country, and the numbers of them has been increased significantly in recent years.
Though the government has now take a measure to call back our citizens but the effect is not encuraging.
Above all, it is the policy, government structures and principal of fair and justice that many local students denied to return and service for the country after completing their professional courses in oversea.
Our parents just has to bear the consequences being kept lonely in home.

A Parent

SS said...

这是真的,去了国外发展的人,要回来是不容易。。。。国家有太多不足之处。。